When Aaron W. Foster and Barbara (Bobbi) Winn climbed into the back seat of Bill Finney's car on a December night in 1980, they were drunk and literally fighting mad.
"She pushed him; he pushed her and, eventually, he slapped her," Finney, the former St. Paul police chief, told jurors Thursday.
Five months later, in the early morning hours of May 8, 1981, Winn was dead from a single gunshot to the chest in the Maplewood townhome she shared with her three children -- and sometimes with Foster.
More than 27 years later, Foster is on trial for third-degree murder in Winn's death.
Prosecutor Deidre Aanstad and defense attorney Earl Gray both said in opening statements that Foster and Winn had argued at the Tipsy Tiger bar the night she died and that she'd told him to move out.
"How did Barbara Winn die?" Aanstad asked. "Was it murder? Was it suicide? That question can only be answered one way. Barbara Winn was murdered May 8, 1981."
Gray countered that the medical examiner never ruled whether Winn's death was an accident, a murder or a suicide. The manner of death was -- and still is -- undetermined, Gray said.
Foster told Winn's sons and officers then that she had shot herself.