The phone call woke Ron Lemmer at half past midnight, Chennai time. "Where are you?" asked his doctor. "I'm five minutes away," Lemmer replied. Stay put, the doctor said, and wait for my call. Everything was falling into place. Two hours later, Lemmer, of Prior Lake, walked alone through a gentle rain to a private hospital and became what is thought to be the first American recipient of a heart transplant in India.
In Minnesota, Lemmer lives within a 90-minute drive of three world-class transplant centers. But this year he defied his hometown doctors to join the growing ranks of "medical tourists" seeking donor organs in the world's poorest countries. It's a journey fraught with moral and medical hazards, and his own doctors tried desperately to talk him out of it.
"[They said] we were making a terrible decision," said his wife, Shelly. "I'm going to come back with my husband in a box."
But once Ron Lemmer made up his mind, there was no looking back.
The Lemmers had been married only a few weeks when Ron, 65, went to the hospital last January for what he thought would be an overnight stay. His heart had been slowly failing since a heart attack in 1998, and doctors wanted to put in a pacemaker. But complications set in; his heart started "pumping like crazy," he said, and other organs started shutting down.
"We celebrated our third week anniversary in the hospital," said Shelly, "and our fourth week and our fifth."
After 23 days, Lemmer rallied enough to go home. But his cardiologists said he would likely die within a year without a new heart. So he put his name on the transplant list at Abbott Northwestern Hospital in Minneapolis.
Facing a long wait