To chaperone or not

Is traveling the world with youth tiring or terrific? Tell us about your chaperone experiences.

March 20, 2014 at 8:03PM

No rest for the weary: I chaperoned once when my daughter's class spent a few days and nights on a Wisconsin farm. Turns out I was no match for the five first- through third-graders in my room. They finally got to sleep around midnight. Like the children, I returned home exhausted. So when a reader called to ask if she should head to Italy as a chaperone for her daughter and some classmates, my muscles tensed. (Chalk it up to flashbacks.) She had only five days to decide, and the trip would cost her $4,100.
I knew what I would do. But I tried to be judicious, realizing that such a decision depends upon the individual. Would she take delight in seeing the world through the wide, excited eyes of youth, or feel ripped off when the schedule deprived her of a leisurely morning cappuccino?
As the reader said, "I don't know which should play a bigger role, the destination or the situation." It's an interesting conundrum. If you've been a chaperone on an international trip, we'd love to hear about your experience.

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Kerri Westenberg

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Health and Science Editor Kerri Westenberg edits the Science & Health section of the Sunday newspaper.

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