Jeffrey Stremcha was supposed to be doing so many other things Tuesday rather than telling a judge what it's like to feel the agony of a grief so overwhelming it brings him to his knees.
He should've been planning a motorcycle trip and discussing the latest financial news with his son Shea, an analyst for Ameriprise. By now, he would've been ribbing Shea about when he was going to make him a grandfather again.
He ought to be anywhere, he said, but a Minneapolis courtroom for the murder sentencings of the three men responsible for a break-in that ended with his youngest son bleeding to death on the hardwood floor he had just refinished.
"We teach our children not to be afraid, that there isn't a monster hiding in the closet, under the bed, or outside the bedroom door," he told Hennepin County District Judge Marilyn Kaman. "We shouldn't have taught Shea to believe that."
The three men he called "monsters" were each sentenced Tuesday to 35 to 40 years in prison for killing Stremcha, who was 25. During three separate hearings, his family and friends talked about the loss not only to those who loved him, but to a society he served as productive, responsible citizen.
Stremcha, a 2008 graduate of St. John's University, died in the Longfellow neighborhood house he bought the year before with his fiancée, Ashley Faeth. He'd been saving for it since high school.
Killed confronting intruders
Stremcha and Faeth were in bed at about 3 a.m. on July 20, 2011, when he confronted three intruders who had broken into his home and was shot once in the heart. He died at the scene.
Semaj Williams, 23; Robert Emmanuel Shelby, 28, and the triggerman, Xavier Demia Walker, 25, all pleaded guilty to second-degree intentional murder in exchange for the sentences. Shelby received 35 years, Williams received 38 years and Walker received 40 years. Walker and Shelby declined to address the court, while Williams expressed regret for Stremcha's death. All three had criminal records, ranging from robbery to drunken-driving convictions.