Rick Kupchella: Keeping the tribe together
My parents, now in their 70s, along with my brother and sister and their families, have used vacation travel as a means to bring everybody together in what began as a five-person family and now includes 17 people.
After my siblings and I finished college and moved away, we seldom, all of us and our families, gathered at the same place and time.
Twenty years ago, my mother asked if we could all find one week in the summer to get together. That year, we met at a small lake cabin in Kentucky, the state where I grew up. Every year since then, my brother, sister, parents and I have taken turns selecting a location.
We have explored some iconic destinations together (Jackson Hole, Colonial Williamsburg, the Outer Banks of the Carolinas and Lake Tahoe), and grown closer as a family. We go hiking, fishing and mountain biking. There are the late-night card games, the giant family dinners, the time spent watching newborns who, I swear, somehow become grade-schoolers by the next year.
For my mother, the trips weren't about longing for "the good old days." It was a forward-looking plan to help the next generation to better know one another. My mother found exactly what she was looking for: a way of keeping the tribe together.
Rick Kupchella, 53, news and brand content creator, theIEnetwork.com; former Twin Cities television news anchor.
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