There I was, making sure my art-loving 8-year-old was drowning in the markers, paints and craft projects he craved, while ignoring his most straightforward request: "I want to learn how to draw."
By draw he meant draw realistically, and by ignore I mean I stalled like a toddler at nap time. Like most parents of my generation, I assumed that drawing what you really see is for the talented few, and that if a kid isn't doing it naturally, you can't do much to help.
Wrong. According to Betty Edwards, author of the classic "Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain" (Tarcher), a kid doesn't learn to draw by herself any more than she learns to read by herself.
In the fourth edition of her beloved book, Edwards says that we're shortchanging our kids by not teaching drawing skills in school. Not only does drawing realistically enrich their lives, she says, but it also teaches them to use the right side of the brain, which is vital to perception and problem-solving -- but tends to get drowned out by the judgmental, language-based left brain.
"In learning to draw, one must slow down and see many, many aspects of, let's say, a tree, so the experience is richer, by far, than simply the [verbal] category, 'tree,'" Edwards says.
"Children are terribly curious about this. You've probably seen your child pick up a flower and examine it closely. And that trait is so important in later life for investigation, scientific or otherwise -- for thinking in general, really. And we are not nurturing that trait in school."
We asked Edwards how to help our kids learn drawing and perceptual skills. The following is an edited transcript.
Q How can we help young children develop perceptual skills?