ST. CLOUD – You don't want to meet Bill Nelson in a dark alley.
The St. Cloud man said he hears that a lot. It makes him laugh: He's actually very nice.
Nelson's résumé could be confused with oa fictional television drama. He works as a private investigator, bounty hunter and surveillance agent for the Stearns County Repeat Felony Domestic Violence Court. He also owns St. Cloud Soo Bahk Do martial arts studio.
"I work 90 hours a week," Nelson said. "But I say I'm retired because I love what I'm doing."
Nelson moved to St. Cloud from the Twin Cities in the late 1970s to go to school to become a jeweler. St. Cloud State University had a good art program, he said.
At the time, he was training in Soo Bahk Do, a Korean martial art. He also volunteered for Woman House shelter, which is now Anna Marie's Alliance.
He started speaking nationally about rape prevention. Nelson wrote the book "Your Weapon Within: How to Lower the Risk of Sexual Assault" in 1993. He has also written shorter books about healthy dating, sexism and gender stereotypes and how they can lead to violence against women, as well as about personal observation and assessment, and children and safety.
"This is nothing about choke holds and breaking boards," Nelson told the St. Cloud Times. "This is about how men treat women."