Jake Balthazor's grandmother had breast cancer surgery Thursday. Balthazor, 15, wore a rosary as a talisman for her health, as he has every day since she gave it to him in March.
On Tuesday, that was a problem. Officials at Coon Rapid High School, where Balthazor is a student, asked him to remove the beads or tuck them into his shirt. The reason: Rosaries recently were added to a list of items prohibited in Anoka-Hennepin schools because they have been coopted as gang symbols.
Balthazor complied because he was told that if he didn't the beads would be taken away.
He said he hasn't been wearing the beads for religious reasons -- they're a Roman Catholic symbol, he's Lutheran -- but as a totem that held him close to his grandmother. "I feel safe, like she's right here with me," he said.
Didn't know
Balthazor, who said he doesn't belong to a gang, had worn the beads in school uneventfully until Tuesday. He said he hadn't known they were banned. School officials said they hadn't known about his grandmother until learning about her in news reports.
Balthazor and his family say they feel singled out, that others have worn rosary beads without incident. District spokeswoman Mary Olson said that knowing about Balthazor's grandmother might have changed how officials thought about things but probably wouldn't have changed the outcome.
Sometimes, when students wear a gang symbol, she said, "someone from the opposing gang may attack them or may do something that would start a fight or something that would be a disruption in the school. So it's really a matter of safety."