Business executive Barbara Hensley got an eye-opening look at the realities of breast cancer treatment when both her sisters were battling the disease in the 1990s.
One sister, more affluent, received chemotherapy in a private curtained space with a window. The other sister underwent chemo in a room with 60 other patients, each of whom had an extra chair, for a support person. But many of the chairs were empty.
"Where are their friends, sisters, husbands?" Hensley wondered.
Then she understood.
As a professional, she could miss work to support her sisters — and not get fired. But these women — and their loved ones — worked hourly jobs, where absence meant losing a paycheck and risking the loss of the job itself.
She met one such patient, Nancy, a young single mother, who did have people at her side — her three preschool children.
"She got sick, lost her [two] jobs and had no money for child care," Hensley recalled. "That was an a-ha moment."
Hensley played with the children to occupy them while Nancy got her chemo, then offered to help her get the children to her car. "She said, 'You can't. We don't have a car.' "