Shirley and Clemons Bak talked about their son Travis Benjamin in the past tense Sunday, but said they still hope that somehow, some way, the 39-year-old Ramsey man managed to climb out of the frigid water of the Mississippi River.
As the Baks talked in a picnic shelter about a mile downstream from where their son's SUV plunged into the river early Friday morning, an Anoka County Sheriff's boat trolled slowly up and down in front of Mississippi River Community Park. The current was too fast to use divers, authorities said, but searchers used sonar to search for the body.
Witnesses said Benjamin's Hummer went through a residential yard, stopped at the shoreline, then appeared to purposely drive into the river where the vehicle ended up in the water up to its headlights. Another man who was in the Hummer was rescued from the water.
But the Baks, who flew into the Twin Cities on Saturday night from their home in Atlanta, insist that Benjamin was not suicidal.
"Travis was a very, very conscientious individual, almost to the point of being a pain sometimes," said his stepfather, Clemons Bak. "What I saw in his apartment is he had this project going on, this project going on, this project going on. There's no question in my mind that this was a complete and total accident for him."
The Baks also said they wonder if Benjamin was even driving the car.
Benjamin grew up in Atlanta, the middle of three sons. He left for the Air Force straight out of high school, then moved to the Twin Cities in 1997.
"He never liked the hot weather," said his mother, Shirley Bak, who called her son "very independent and self-reliant."