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Dick Schwartz’s Valentine’s Day commentary (”Love letters revisited”) was so uplifting to read. I love the written word and am a many-year subscriber to the Star Tribune — words written on paper are still valuable in this internet world.
I could so identify with it, as my husband retired from the Navy in 1979, and the numbering of the letters is what we did during those military years. He died in August of this past year at the age of 82, and I have all those letters, plus many years of journaling of our lives when we started our life in Minnesota in 1975. Those letters and journals now are of great comfort to me as they describe lives well-lived.
Now, in my grief of losing my husband, I write each night in a journal, “Letters to My Husband In Heaven.” He will never read them but they bring me great comfort to write.
I was so touched when the author quoted his mother, “Mom told me Dad once told her how writing his letters ‘saved his life.’” I could visualize a young military man at war never knowing if he would return home, and those letters were what he held onto. As I write letters to “My Husband in Heaven,” I realize it’s not for him but for me to learn how to survive without him. Just as his father wrote those letters for himself, just to try and survive a war he didn’t know he would return home from.
Thank you, Mr. Schwartz, for such a beautiful article.
Linda Nelson, Bloomington