Meanwhile, heat the oil in a 4- or 5-quart pot. Stir in the onion, garlic, thyme, bay leaf, red pepper flakes, nutmeg or allspice and black pepper. Sauté, stirring over medium heat for about 5 minutes, or until the onions are tender.
Add 8 cups water and stir. Add the turkey wing or ham bone. Bring to a boil, cover, reduce the heat to simmer and cook for about 45 minutes. Using a large fork, break off the turkey or ham meat from the bones into strips.
Drain and rinse the soaked black-eyed peas and add to the pot. Bring to a boil and reduce the heat to simmer. Stir in the rum, if desired.
Cover and cook the soup for about 1 hour, or until the peas are tender and the soup is creamy, stirring occasionally. When done, stir in the salt and heat 15 minutes longer.
Serve the soup in large warm soup bowls, topped with a couple spoonfuls of the Roasted Bell Peppers. (See recipe at right.)
Nutrition information per each of 6 servings: