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I told him he was hurting me, and I tried to push him off. He pinned me to the floor and would not stop. Knowing that in this isolated place he could hurt me much worse than he already was, or even kill me if he wanted to, I stopped fighting, hoping it would soon be over. I left in a stunned state, torn and bloody, feeling small and dirty. My sense of self-worth and safety, my ability to protect myself, in which I'd formerly believed, was entirely shattered. I didn't tell anyone for decades. And I never screamed.
Patricia Arneson, Wayzata
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Grabbing and groping is not nothing ("Trump found liable for sexual abuse," May 10). That is one of the takeaways of Tuesday's verdict. And hopefully the point taken will also be that one human cannot assume what another human "wants" and cannot assume, "You liked it." And one human is not the decider for another of what the other wants, wanted, likes or liked.
Diane Adair, St. Louis Park
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