I cannot imagine the anguish that Patty and Jerry Wetterling, along with their family, have gone through all of these years. Yet despite undergoing the very worst sort of ordeal, they always conducted their lives with the greatest poise and dignity.
Now that the remains of Jacob Wetterling have been found, I can only wish the Wetterlings the very best and hope they can now find some measure of peace. They deserved so much better than this.
Robert Miller, Circle Pines
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I've had a few days to think about the news of Jacob Wetterling's remains being found. My wife was shaken, as was I. Why did his death affect me more than any other death I've heard about in the news? After I thought about it, I came to realize that "our son" has died. Of course, this was not our son, and I can't comprehend the loss that the Wetterling family is experiencing now, but Jacob was our collective son. He was the embodiment of every parent's worst fears and most fervent hopes. Laws were passed in his name. Porch lights were left on in his honor in the hope that somehow, some day he would find his way home. Now that he has been found, he will be buried and we all will suffer the loss of "our son."
Jeffrey Benny, St. Louis Park
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The Wetterling case is as heartbreaking as it can be. I would like to make a suggestion to the many people who are using the word "closure." My husband of 48 years passed away more than two years ago, and I can tell you that word does not even come close to describing the loss of a loved one. It is simply inaccurate and, frankly, hurtful to suggest that chapter in my life can now be closed. I miss him every day and will continue to do so even as time passes.
Anne O'Brien, Minneapolis
NURSES' STRIKE
The state of health coverage in my nonunion department
I crossed the Minnesota Nurses Association picket line on Monday to get to work ("Allina, nurses brace for long strike," Sept. 5). I am a non-MNA RN. I stopped to give and receive many hugs from my friends wearing red and carrying signs. I support their efforts 100 percent. I have the corporate health care plan, which has proved to be a poor substitute for the MNA plan I used to have. For the first time in my 39 years as an RN, I have a loan to pay for the medical care my husband needed this year, plus I put $153 per pay period in my Health Savings Account, over and above my premiums. Nor am I the only one in my nonunion department who is struggling with health care expenses. It is so ironic that a health care corporation is willing to spend tens of millions of dollars to end adequate health care plans for its nurses. What Allina spent on the one-week strike in July would cover the RNs for two years! What will this open-ended strike cost?
People want to know that the corporations they work for and deal with are ethical. As I crossed that picket line and saw only good people who are skilled, dedicated workers who work long hours, weekends, holidays and night shifts caring for the sick, I found it hard to believe that I work for an ethical corporation. I pray that the two sides find agreement quickly and that the RNs are left whole.