PRAYING AWAY THE GAY
Support gay rights and end the pain, isolation
A simple thank you is hardly enough for Ron Bates' eloquent Sept. 1 commentary ("I tried for years to pray the gay away"). It is difficult to imagine anyone who is still "stuck in neutral" on this issue after reading his piece.
Individuals in families, schools, workplaces and churches should be motivated and mobilized to support those whose life stories are just as compelling as the one written by Bates.
By doing nothing in support of the gay community, we are allowing more lives to suffer this pain and isolation.
Guilt and shame should not be words that Bates has to use to describe his orientation, but should be applied to those who do nothing to encourage understanding and acceptance.
SHARYN HOLCOMB, MAHTOMEDI
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We'd have great schools if we really worked at it
Regarding Gary Marvin Davison's Aug. 31 commentary ("Don't weep at urban violence; prevent it with better schools"): I have been an education activist since 1995, when I discovered that my daughter, who had been educated in a highly rated suburban public school system and was nearing the end of fourth grade, could not write a coherent paragraph or tell me what country she lived in.
After about 10 years of fighting the good fight (including running my own after-school reading instruction program for five years), I finally gave up.