MARRIAGE AMENDMENT
Religion's role in the debate
Well, it's down to the wire, and it appears that those voting "no" on the marriage amendment might be trailing a bit, but try to take some solace in who your team members are. They include: Catholics/Christians who believe God is love; Catholics/Christians who believe Jesus stood with the outcast and oppressed; likely most Jews, as they understand persecution.
Also, likely many libertarians, who want big government out of our lives, and the many grandparents who see, through the perspective of age, a gay family member. Possibly also on our side are blacks and women, the last two groups to be considered full citizens of the United States.
Now, who is on the other side? The opposition includes the Catholic bishops; the president of Iran; some fear-mongering legislators, and quite a number of people who cite the Bible, even though most Catholic theologians dispute their church's stand.
Win or lose, I like the side I'm on.
GARTH GIDEON, BECKER, MINN.
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Embedded in the Sept. 25 article "Catholics to pay for marriage vote ads" was a misleading claim by a St. Paul pastor that he might eventually be forced to preside at same-sex marriages if the courts were to declare same-sex marriage legal. Surely he knows better. Surely he knows that no clergy person can be forced to preside over any marriage.
Clergy may refuse to preside at a marriage when they feel one of the participants is mentally unable to decide whether to marry, or emotionally too fragile to decide to marry. They may opt out if they suspect that one of the couple is being coerced into marriage. They may opt out if neither member of the couple is of their faith, or if one member of the couple is under the age of consent. They may refuse to marry a couple that has not participated in marriage preparation classes. And so on, and so on, and so on.