MARRIAGE AMENDMENT
Poll results guide us in a sensible direction
The Star Tribune Minnesota Poll ("Marriage vote splits the state into two," Sept. 23) validates the arguments of those who oppose the marriage amendment. Sixty-eight percent of likely voters support "civil unions," and 47 percent support "same-sex marriages."
In the United States, we proclaim the separation of church and state. It might be argued that the churches are in the "marriage" business and the government is in the "civil union" business. In Belgium, a couple wishing to be united may participate in two ceremonies. They first go to the courthouse, where they take part in a civil ceremony uniting them in the eyes of the state. Then, if they choose, they go to their place of worship to be united in the eyes of the church.
In the latter case, the clergyman is not acting as an agent of the state. In this country, the clergy inappropriately serve as representatives of the state when they perform a ceremony accepted by the church and the state. The proposed marriage amendment would further obfuscate the church-state relationship.
ALLEN W. MOEN, ROCKFORD
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Of all of the arguments over the marriage amendment, the one that stands out for me is that voting no is good for the state's business climate and economy. My husband and I were drawn to this state because of the music, theaters and restaurants; the lakes and parks; the social programs that indicated Minnesota's willingness to care for its own, and the economy.
In the last 30 years, people of many different cultures have moved here, enriching the area with different languages, foods and religions. I was always proud that we were an inclusive state. This amendment sends the opposite message.
I am not sure I would have moved here, stayed and raised a family if we were in the same type of political climate that we have now. With that in mind, I wonder how many we will discourage if this amendment passes. I know that I will not encourage my daughter or her partner to live here. She lives in a state that allows them the right to marry, and they are happily engaged. But the wedding won't be here. That money will be spent in another state.