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I grew up in Arizona in the 1970s. When I was 8 years old, I was sent to live with my dad, stepmom and stepsiblings. We didn't have a lot of money. At my school, you could work in the cafeteria to get "free lunch." This entailed scraping and spraying the leftovers and pushing the trays down the line and through the huge, industrial dishwashing machine. It was behind an open window where all your classmates could see you, like an animal in the zoo. It was humiliating, hot, sweaty, wet work. I was the new girl in school in the third grade and spent the entire lunch hour breaking child labor laws while my classmates ate together and had recess. At the end of the hour, the lunch ladies gave you a few minutes to scarf down your "free lunch" before rushing you back to class.
So what did little Brandi do? I stopped working and I stopped eating. I would sit on the playground and wait for the other kids to get done eating and then have recess with them. When they asked me why I didn't eat lunch, I would just say, "Because I'm not hungry."
The truth is, I was hungry. I was always hungry. I oftentimes skipped breakfast at home as my stepmom only allowed oatmeal, which I hated. Long bus ride to and from school. Most days my first meal wasn't until dinner, around 6 p.m. I would eat as fast as I could to beat my siblings to the seconds before they were gone. My friend's dad in high school once asked me if I had a hollow leg, because I would gorge myself anytime I ate with them. I had a high metabolism so most of the food didn't "stick" to me. I felt like I could never have enough food, which created a lifelong, unhealthy relationship with it that I still struggle with.
So, yes, I'm OK with my tax dollars going to free lunch for kiddos ("Better than a ban: Free lunch for all," Readers Write, Dec. 5). Not just the poor kids but the "rich" kids, too. Not just the young kids but the high schoolers. For some kids, it might be the only meal they get the whole day.
Brandi Bennett, Minneapolis
GOLDEN VALLEY
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