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I've been wrecked by the news from Israel and Gaza, finding multiple sources of news and talking to friends in the know to help me understand this endless conflict. I notice that one thing is conspicuously absent: the presence of women in power. The only women I see are victims, covered in ash, holding babies, weeping. Highly polarized struggles over land, religious beliefs and ethnic identification seem to flare into unsolvable dilemmas in the Middle East, and women are not at the table where decisions get made.
When the world's ancient religions treat women as seconds, perilous temptations, or inferior to men, we're all socialized to believe it. Women are told they have to take a ritual bath after being "unclean" during menstruation, a natural biological function every mammal experiences. Women are told they have to cover their entire bodies, even their faces, to stay modest and not tempt the men around them. Catholic women, this very month, are begging male leadership to at least let them be deacons in the church they so avidly support. Just this year a certain sect of American Christianity made sure to codify its vote against women holding positions of power in church services.
Perhaps the original tenets of the main religions were holy and positive, but the interpretations of ancient scrolls and thousand-year-old oral histories, formulated and enforced by men, have been supremely unkind to women. This has played a particularly nasty role in creating the world we see now, with young male terrorists throughout the world plotting murder and training for acts of barbarism on others. Men seeking vengeance. Men raping and terrifying hostages. Such rage and mayhem almost never stems from women political leaders.
Of course, not all religious people hold extremist views, and I acknowledge that many courageous and empathetic acts have been performed in the name of religion. But when women don't have equal footing in an organization, and are even specifically labeled unworthy, I really have to wonder. Women are half the population and critical in sustaining the human race, but somehow deemed incapable of playing roles equal to men in prayer, sacraments and liturgy. Was this really the intent of an all-knowing creator?
God forbid.
Cheryl Bailey, St. Paul