In reading the lead letter on Nov. 18 ("No church? That's a cop-out"), I couldn't help feeling a little talked down to. The writer, a pastor, opens his strange letter by enumerating all the reasons that people are leaving churches (or as he calls it, "the Body," whatever that means), then asks — almost demands — that we not leave the Body just because the church is hypocritical, because, he says, "don't tell me that you are free of hypocrisy." My goodness! Suddenly I'm lumped in with oily-haired TV evangelists and pedophile priests? He goes on to imply that I (and you, dear reader) are complicit in society's degradation because we are "spiritually dead or dying." Dear God, I guess when I was grading papers on Sunday mornings after tending to my garden (oh, oh, unorganized spirituality creeping up on me?) I was copping out on you by putting my students' needs first.
It's understandable that the writer is anxious about the state of religion these days, but don't blame it on us. I could argue that religion got its start when people desperately needed to explain the phenomena they were experiencing — the heavenly bodies, thunder and lightning, disease, crop failure or success, etc., and argue that it's all nonsense viewed through modern eyes. I could make a case that religion has been the cause of so much war and suffering, and that we'd all be better off without it. But the fact is, religion is here, and it's evolving, just like everything else; you can't stop it.
I would never be so bold as to deny someone his or her beliefs. Whatever brings people peace and comfort and faith and courage, I'm all for it. But the letter writer seems to disagree: He closes with, "the church today is serious business. Please don't neglect it. When you do, everyone loses." Forgive me, but I don't think I'm really that important. Do you?
Steve Ford, St. Paul
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The letter on religious disaffiliation (responding to "Fastest growing religion is 'None,' " part of the Star Tribune's ongoing "Unchurching of America" series, Nov. 11) was well-intended but largely irrelevant to religious "nones." Perhaps most striking is the letter writer's response to the refrain of "I'm spiritual but not religious." He argues for the benefits associated with membership in a faith community, and he exhorts young people to pay no mind to religious hypocrisy and to "Stay with your faith community and let your voice be heard!" The hidden premise is that young nones agree with Christian precepts. But this assumption is dubious at best. In Europe, a decline in religiosity led to a rise in people believing in "some sort of spirit or life force," rather than a rise in theists who do not attend church (tinyurl.com/euro-relig, page 204). Getting young nones to attend church is secondary to convincing them of the gospel's veracity.
Even if a substantial number of nones are absent Christians, the notion that they should stay to try and effect change is ridiculous. Religious nones are not shepherds to their former faith communities. Too often, these communities are entrenched with cliques and poor lay leadership. In my home parish, the "Quilter's group" was the club of the elderly social elite, and it wasn't until our priest gave an aggressive homily comparing them to the Pharisees that their grip on power was broken. My overturning tables and chasing them with a whip wouldn't have made a difference. I just don't have the credibility. The inclusion of young people starts with religious leadership. The nones can't be faulted.
Ryan Slechta, Arden Hills
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I reject organized religion for a variety of reasons, but I wouldn't dream of telling the faithful that they should stop attending church. However, apparently it's appropriate to say that my well-thought-out choice not to be involved in organized religion is a "cop-out." People would probably get along a lot better if they didn't make negative comments about the religious choices of others. I promise not to if they will.