SAME-SEX TREATMENT
Sometimes, the market is the best arbiter
With regard to Ross Douthat's March 4 column ("Gay marriage and pressure to just give in") — almost 30 years ago (Good grief! Has it been that long?) my husband-to-be and I went to a jewelry store to purchase wedding rings. After some confusion, the salesman explained that the store "didn't have anything like that" for same-sex couples. So we thanked him and went across the mall to a competitor's store, where an older saleswoman cheerfully showed us a tray full of wedding bands.
If there's only one lunch counter, only one pharmacy or only one photography studio in town, sit-ins and protests and legal actions are appropriate. But sometimes, it may be just as effective to let the free-enterprise system work its magic.
JEFF MOSES, Minneapolis
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Despite cries from readers that indicate otherwise (Readers Write, March 4), a Sunday cover photo of a married couple sharing a moment of affection in 2014 is rather ordinary ("State confronts profound change from gay marriage," March 2). If that's an act you find repulsive or abnormal, that's all on you.
BEAU LARSON, Minneapolis
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Regarding the picture in Sunday's paper of the soldier and his partner: I think anyone serving our country in the military and putting his or her life on the line is entitled to show a public display of their affection to the person he or she loves. There is nothing to be ashamed of.
CHARLES D. NOVAK, Minneapolis
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Let me be clear. I agree that in our society people can choose whatever lifestyle they like, even if their decision is clearly morally and biblically wrong. But the Star Tribune could have run the story without such a picture, and I would have looked at it as just another liberal story from the same liberal newspaper, and I probably could have left it at that. Instead, the editors chose to print a picture that would unquestionably be offensive to a certain number of readers. What is even more disappointing to me is that if there were a different picture that might clearly be offensive to a different group of readers, the editors likely would not have printed it.