VIETNAM VETS
Don't gloss over how badly vets were treated
Thanks to Bob Feist for his well-written counterpoint about Vietnam veterans ("Disrespect for Vietnam vets is fact, not myth," June 27). As the wife of a Marine who proudly served his country in Vietnam, I believe I have more firsthand knowledge than commentary writer David Sirota ("The myth of the spat-upon war veteran," June 8).
My husband was seriously wounded in the 1968 Tet Offensive. After numerous surgeries overseas, he was flown stateside, only to be spat on upon his arrival at the airport. He spent months in a hospital bed relearning how to walk and has spent a lifetime in pain. Even so, he still walks proudly as a Marine who served his country because it was the right thing to do.
JUDY ADAMSON, APPLE VALLEY
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MARRIAGE AMENDMENT
Love is at the heart of good relationships
I am grateful to Pat Fallon for his opposition to the marriage amendment ("Marriage amendment: 'No' is the helpful vote," June 26.) Unfortunately, the commentary displayed a common misunderstanding that homosexuality is primarily about sex ("keep the government out of our bedrooms"). Marriage, whether straight or gay, is about love, and sex is only one part of it.
NANCY NEWMAN, MINNEAPOLIS
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The decision by Minnesota's United Methodists to oppose the marriage amendment may confuse some people ("State's Methodists take a brave stand," June 6). Let's be clear about the official position of the United Methodist Church on same-sex marriage. The denomination's Book of Discipline states: "We affirm the sanctity of the marriage covenant that is expressed in love, mutual support, personal commitment, and shared fidelity between a man and a woman. We believe that God's blessing rests upon such marriage, whether or not there are children of the union. We reject social norms that assume different standards for women than for men in marriage. We support laws in civil society that define marriage as the union of one man and one woman." Over decades, the worldwide church has steadfastly affirmed that position.