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I appreciated D.J. Tice's catalog of current explanations for the puzzle of how we can be discontented amid the most fortunate circumstances in history ("The pursuit of unhappiness (and its remedies)," Opinion Exchange, April 2). He lists political orientation, social media, the temperamental baseline theory and financial status.
But he asked the wrong question. The puzzle is not why we are unhappy, but why should we expect that happiness is our natural state. Happiness is an accomplishment, not a default.
The Buddha famously said that life is suffering. Evolutionary psychologists have been clear for decades that evolution did not engineer us to be happy, but to survive. With tigers in the bushes and drought around the corner, a restless anxiety better ensured survival than a blissful complacency. I often tell my law students that the genes of a squirrel that is satisfied with just one nut will not make it into the next generation.
Asking the right question is important because it leads to more useful answers: Happiness is found most readily in the conduct for which evolution itself has created psychic rewards. Start with the obvious: mating and child-rearing, useful work, contributions to the tribe, status based on legitimate accomplishments, a healthy lifestyle. And don't forget the practices that tap into our highly evolved capacity for spirituality — gratitude, mindfulness, prayer, ritual and especially the appreciation of something greater than ourselves.
Bruce Peterson, Minneapolis
WOMEN IN POVERTY
Can we fix this?
While the front-page Sunday story on the shaky financial situations of many older women was a good one, it is hardly breaking news; historically, women have often drawn the short stick financially ("Senior women face new poverty crisis"). Reasons for them now living cash-poor lives are many, including divorce/lack of alimony; because when they "had" to work they chose traditionally low-paying jobs since they didn't feel qualified for higher-paying positions; the fact that many companies eliminated pensions several years ago; or because health problems led to them being unable to work full time (or at all) or else led to staggering medical debt from which they cannot escape.