GAY MARRIAGE
What's the right role for government, religion?
The religion-minded have every right to argue whatever position they believe, but I would caution them to be wary of just what it is they preach. Denying gay couples the right to marry is a denial of equality under the law ("Same-sex couples file action against marriage law," May 12). If we are to claim tradition's precedence over these rights, we must ask ourselves: What would Jesus do?
Would he deny his brothers and sisters the right to enter into one of society's great contracts? Would he deny them an institution that, statistically, makes people happier and healthier and increases life spans? Would he be able to accept so conspicuous a mode of discrimination?
Religion's role in society is a story of extremes, a long and varied history. At one moment, it will tell us both that the woman's role is in the home, submitting to her husband, and that women are equally deserving of societal recognition and the right to vote. It will simultaneously tell us that slavery is for the benefit of slaves and slave owners alike, and that slavery is an abomination against God.
Religion is at its best when it argues for the equality and dignity of all people -- when it is a positive force, opening doors and hearts. When we find our religion becoming a negative force -- when faith demands us to say no to our neighbors instead of yes -- we should reconsider what side we are truly on. We should remind ourselves that Jesus preached love and acceptance, not denial.
CONNOR GALLAGHER, ST. PAUL
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It is time for Minnesotans to recognize that government involvement in the institution of marriage is the problem. Everyone has the right to choose a partner in life. It shouldn't be up to government to determine the makeup of that choice. We need to repeal all aspects of marriage from government and leave it to the religious institutions. It is time to replace the marriage license with a partnership recognition certificate that will give all legal aspects that the current marriage license does.
CHRIS LUND, HAMBURG, MINN.