'TWILIGHT ZONE' SERIES
We must realistically reckon with age wave
Note to Minnesota, America and to candidates: Our state and our country are aging ("Aging boomers will strain families, state," Aug. 22). There is no way to provide care for this population without either raising taxes to pay for medical, home care and long-term care, or having more people out of the work force and at home caring for aging family members. Either way, our incomes will decrease. Stop looking for gimmicks to save money. Some savings can be realized by improving health and community supports, but many of the costs are inevitable if we as a society plan to care for, as opposed to neglect, the aging. We have to pay up in one way or another.
But guess what: Instead of focusing on greed, ourselves and our pocketbooks, we will have the satisfaction and peace that comes from living in a community that cares.
MARY MCGURRAN, Minneapolis
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Having followed the Star Tribune's coverage of the problems of aging, we note that the assumption is usually made that an aging person in uncertain health has two choices: enter a nursing home or stay in his or her own home with help from family and/or outside, often government, resources. Only rarely is mention made of the many retirement residences that offer meals, safety, some medical care (with swift access to advanced care), and, most importantly, companionship.
With all the technological advances to enable the aging in stay in their own homes, the distress caused by loneliness is never addressed. Don't count on the person delivering Meals on Wheels. He or she can stay only a minute, because other "customers" must be served. Don't count on the aged person's friends. At 85 or 90 years of age, most friends are either deceased or unable to visit. Family? If there are, indeed, family members in the neighborhood, which is not always the case these days, they are usually employed and cannot visit during working hours. Neighbors? The suburbs in which most people live are deserted from 7:30 until 6 or later. This is also increasingly true of small towns.
We believe the advantages of staying in one's own home have been oversold, and the merits of residences for the elderly have been underestimated.
BRYNHILD ROWBERG, ON BEHALF OF 11 OTHER RESIDENTS OF PARKVIEW WEST RESIDENCE, NORTHFIELD