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Thank you to Jeremy Norton for the excellent commentary on death and dying, "To live more fully, let's make peace with death" (Opinion Exchange, Sept. 9). I am of the cohort that is passing away, and I wholeheartedly agree with his recommendations. Death is undefeated. Talk with your family. Prepare them for the inevitable. Don't let yourself have a bad death because of your reluctance to face reality. Heroic measures to stave off the inevitable are sad and costly. Make peace with yourself and your loved ones. And loved ones, have "the talk" as soon as possible. We know we are failing, and sometimes we don't want you to be sad. But it is important to share. A peaceful transition is what we all crave.
Sandy Aubitz, Bloomington
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Thank you to Jeremy Norton, a Minneapolis firefighter/EMT, for illustrating chronic-disease and end-of-life scenarios. Recently our family encountered a health scenario that slipped by during advanced directive planning with our loved one. Did we think about and discuss advanced age and surgery during good health? Did we discuss with our family the possible negative outcomes even though we were expecting a good recovery? The end of life is very complex, and it will be very helpful to include our trusted primary medical provider. I plan on helping my loved one by attending an appointment to continue the conversation.
One more thing: Please ensure that the path is cleared for first responders in the home.
Deidre Campbell, Andover