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Regarding "The trauma of dealing with trauma never stops": As an emergency room nurse at the Hennepin County Medical Center from 2014 to December 2021, I appreciated the in-depth reporting on the toll of working in emergency medicine. I often felt guilty likening my experience to the PTSD of military veterans or police, because I was far less physically in danger. However, the emotional whiplash of witnessing constant violence, particularly dead children, before punching out to return to normal life is isolating at best. With multiple colleagues taking their own lives during my tenure, I hope society and hospital systems are moved to care for the emotional well-being of front-line employees working in critical care, including giving permission to take a pause such as fully paid leave, if requested, and not denying/limiting time-off requests.
Anna Dykhuis, Minneapolis
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I hope the ER staff at HCMC realize that the fine work they do in saving lives is truly appreciated. I know because my husband ended up there years ago after we were struck by a drunken driver when we were riding our bikes. They literally saved his life. I was admitted at a different hospital, and those ER workers also deserve thanks. Years later, we have a good life — some lasting damage, yes, but we are here. Thanks to all the ER health care workers!
Lori Lohman, Chaska
SINGLE-PARENT FAMILIES
It's the wages, not the marital status
Nicholas Kristof seems to be confusing correlation and causation in his recent commentary ("The privilege we liberals can't see," Opinion Exchange, Sept. 15). Yes, single-parent families correlate to greater childhood poverty and lower achievement. Why? Because wages are no longer high enough that a family of four can survive, let alone thrive, on a single (40-hour week) income. It's hard to provide enrichment experiences if you are struggling to afford food, housing and reliable transportation or need to work two jobs to do it. So are single-parent families the real cause of childhood poverty and achievement failure, or is it that wages haven't kept up with cost of living increases since the 1950s?