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I endorse Jane Harris' well-presented opinion on educational discipline ("Balanced discipline is part of an education," July 19). While it has been firmly established that racist attitudes have been and remain active in American society, discipline and consequences are a gift we give our children and adults. I worked with emotionally/behaviorally disturbed adolescents for nine years in a level-four school. I also worked for seven years with adolescents who sexually offended.
Discipline and punishment are two very different approaches to misbehavior. Consequences for hurtful behavior are intended to educate. Children and adolescents who have no external locus of control, no adult to put a stop to out-of-control behaviors, nourish anger in a child. Children and adolescents want loving, firm, caring adults who let them know they are safe but may, under no conditions, hurt themselves or others. Feeling internally out of control creates anxiety, and one symptom of anxiety is irritability and anger. This grows with no consequences. A child feels unsafe when no adult helps manage behaviors the child cannot or will not control.
While keeping an out-of-control child in a classroom seems to show concern and understanding for the child, it simply tells the child she is hopeless and cannot learn to manage herself. Learning responsibility for one's behavior is emotionally painful, difficult and critical to a civil society. We owe that to our children.
Dawn H. Strommen, Anoka
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I read with interest and appreciation for Harris' perspective. Her piece was a response to Myron Medcalf's July 16 column "Detention law gives small kids fairer start" and the July 4 article "Schools rethink discipline ahead of new laws." These relate to one of the new state statutes that was signed into law in May as part of a sweeping education bill.