HIGH-DENSITY GROWTH
Does St. Paul hope to mirror Minneapolis?
A Dec. 16 story ("Mpls. sees high-density future") discussed the role of high rises, condominiums and other projects on the horizon to boost population growth in downtown Minneapolis. This is great. Now, what about St. Paul's projected growth in terms of population and buildings, and the impact of light rail? Please look across the river and tell that story, too.
STEVEN SCHREIBER, Inver Grove Heights
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GENDER NEUTRALITY
Sweden is ahead of and behind the times
In her column on gender neutrality efforts in Sweden ("If you could rid the world of gender, would you?" Dec. 16), Katherine Kirsten revealed a nostalgic view of traditional gender roles that is touching, but that differs greatly from historical reality. I remember a traditional father so tired from his role as breadwinner that playing catch with his son at the end of the workday was out of the question. The mother, constrained by her traditional homemaking role, was also unable or unwilling to throw a ball to her son. I remember the boy throwing the ball against a stone wall to catch the unpredictable rebound, alone. Today, on the other hand, it's common for a mother to play catch with a son or daughter, and for a father to bake bread with a daughter or son. Gender differences are useful but should not become restraints. Perhaps, as Kersten maintains, Sweden has taken gender neutrality a bit too far.
JOSEPH EHRLICH, ARDEN HILLS
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Kersten seems to fear that Sweden's gender-neutrality effort will land in the United States unless preventive action is taken. God forbid that boys plays with Barbie dolls, that men become nurturers or that women become more independent! My gosh, this could lead us right into a society with a female leader, with more men choosing to run child care centers, with girls excelling in science, and with more boys forming close, caring friendships. Thankfully, the Star Tribune has a columnist to inform us about this terrifying potential. Whew!
PAULA CHILDERS, BLOOMINGTON