GAY MARRIAGE
Stop judging and start loving your neighbors
I just read the July 31 article "Gay marriage foes more sad than bitter," and I continue to struggle with how people choose their faith over their neighbors and their loved ones. These folks simply choose to be "sad." They're missing out on wonderful relationships. They're missing out on building treasured memories to carry with them into their old age. There is no way there can be too much love. Too often religious dogma breeds bigotry, and the people who preach it don't even know that they have been brainwashed by it. Meanwhile families grow more estranged.
As for the couple with the gay son: I wish they would shelve the Good Book and spend some time loving and getting to know their son. He has a life and friends and a world that loves him. Why wouldn't they want to be part of that world? Don't preach and don't judge; just love your family and neighbors. Choose to be happy and see if that doesn't make your day a little better.
STEVE LITTLE, St. Louis Park
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To the religious gay rights foe who lamented in the story that "nothing is intrinsically evil anymore," I submit: genocide, poverty, spousal and child abuse, greed and intolerance. Need I go on? Instead of decrying gay rights as a victory of the "me"-obsessed gay, there is good news in an overwhelmingly straight society saying, "We embrace you."
May I repeat your words back to you? "Good news is only good news if the hearer hears it as good news. So I pray and wait — wait for an opportunity to share at a time that finds a friend with listening ears and open heart."
ROSSI SNIPPER, Minneapolis
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Like the people interviewed for the gay marriage story, I too am deeply concerned with growing immorality in our nation.
I've watched for 40 years as Americans have grown to accept the immoral idea of tax cuts for the rich paid for by cutting social programs for the poor. I've watched in rage at the weakening of environmental laws and the rapid takeover of our government by corporations. I watched with despair as President Obama's attempt at getting all Americans health care has come under fierce attack.