When it comes up in conversation that I taught seventh grade for 17 years, I often get comments like, "That is a tough age." People tell me stories about how disrespectful/rude/defiant/mean and self-absorbed they were then. Here's how I explain why that is a tough age: When kids are small, they think everything adults say is true. Then they find out we (adults) lied to them; maybe it's Santa Claus or the Easter bunny or the Tooth Fairy; it doesn't matter. But once they find out we lied to them, they stop believing everything we say and start believing nothing we say. That's seventh-graders. This quote (sometimes attributed to Mark Twain) says it better: "When I was 14, my father was the stupidest man in the world. By the time I was 21, I was amazed at how much the old man had learned in seven years."
I think empires are like people in that regard. When an empire is young it accepts its own origin story. Usually the story is of brilliant visionary founders of high moral character and noble ambitions.
But our American empire is apparently entering its adolescence.
In 1964, 77% of Americans believed that the government could be trusted to do the right thing all or most of the time; today it's 19%, according to Pew Research Center.
We'll probably never get back to 77% of Americans trusting the government, but just as adolescents come to understand that adults are just flawed, imperfect people doing the best they can, I look forward to the day when Americans collectively mature to the point that we again trust that the hardworking people in our government strive to achieve the ideals of America, even though America has not always lived up to them.
Rolf bolstad, Minneapolis
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This past week Rep. John Lewis died. There have been many accolades and tributes to him. He is the last of the "Big Six" Black leaders who marched for civil rights for Black people. His life was dedicated to voting rights for all.
My husband and I recently watched a documentary on TPT about his life. He was focused, dedicated and passionate about voting. Lewis was a role model and servant for living a life of humble, nonviolent passion.
How can humble and passion be in the same sentence? He approached life from a place of love and grace-filled belief in everyone. But he also delivered fiery speeches exhorting everyone not to take voting for granted, to treasure, honor and realize what a gift and responsibility it was.