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Reading the letters to the editor on Tuesday, I was struck by how easy it is to get caught up in categories and extreme positions that are not based in fact.
To the conservative white man who supports abortion rights, I say thank you and welcome to the struggle ("A time to welcome, not disparage"). One has to look no further than Justice Clarence Thomas or the many women who oppose abortion access to see that this position is not determined by race or gender. We should not disparage anyone on the basis of identity.
To the writer who critiqued ideologues on both sides: "those who want all abortions to be forbidden vs. those who support 'on-demand' access to full-term abortion," I agree that the ideologues who want all abortions to be forbidden are indeed a threat, as we see in states that are enacting bans with no exceptions. However, I challenge you to show me anyone or any state that wants on-demand access to full-term abortion. People who support Roe v. Wade accept a ban on abortions after fetal viability, which is the basis of that ruling. Under the Roe ruling, abortions after that could be restricted except to save the life or health of the mother, usually when it becomes clear that the fetus is not viable, or the baby will die soon after birth. It is terribly unfair to categorize these tragic situations as "on-demand access to full term abortion."
To the writer who laments demands to "kill their baby in the womb," I share your love and concern for babies, but please try to see the complexities of the situation. I often see pro-life billboards with photos of adorable babies who must be at least three months old. A fertilized egg may carry the potential to become that child, but it is not at that stage. Religions and people vary in views about when life begins and when the life and choice of the mother should matter more than the potential life that she carries.
As other letter writers demonstrated, abortion bans also have unintended consequences for lifesaving health care in cases of miscarriage and ectopic pregnancies. It's complicated. Let's try to keep respectful conversations going and try seeing beyond the slogans.
Susan Ranney, Plymouth