Connie Ferdinand went crazy with pain when she learned in 1980 that Mary Steinhart, her 22-year-old cousin, had been stabbed to death in Minneapolis.
On Friday, nearly 34 years later, Ferdinand was in court when Robert Skogstad was sentenced for stabbing Steinhart 25 times in a fit of anger in the bedroom of her Uptown apartment. Skogstad wasn't charged until September 2012, when a cold-case review and DNA match led to his being brought to justice. He pleaded guilty in November.
Ferdinand told the judge that she believes Skogstad had 25 chances to recoil in remorse, but a deeper ugliness inside wouldn't let him stop.
Asked to speak before receiving an 11-year prison sentence, Skogstad broke down in tears and said he didn't think he could say anything that would take the pain away. Because he's already been in jail for nearly four years, he is expected to serve another four years in prison before release on probation for the remainder of his sentence.
The 11-year sentence was the length 1980 guidelines called for in second-degree murder cases. Today, Skogstad could have received a nearly 30-year sentence.
In her statement to the judge, Ferdinand said that even though Skogstad, now 58, is chronically ill, he should have to serve every day of his sentence in prison.
Alice Ferdinand, another of Steinhart's cousins, said he got away with murder for 32 years. He had a family, raised children, and was able to drink beer with friends, she said.
"When Mr. Skogstad admitted in court that he did it, he said he did it because Mary made him angry," Alice Ferdinand said. "I was dumbstruck. He showed no remorse. It sounded like he was reading a grocery list."