Growing up, Vern Bartholomew shared one bed with three brothers. His sister slept in a crib until she was nearly 12.
Whichever sibling awoke first got the good pair of shoes to wear to school that day.
The humble upbringing, by a baker mom and house painter dad, molded him into a well-loved man who tried to get along and help any soul in need, including his time as chauffeur and bodyguard to Hubert Humphrey.
Bartholomew died Nov. 2, two months shy of his 101st birthday, at his Brooklyn Park home after a short illness.
The father of four, grandfather of nine and great-grandfather of many was preceded in death by his wife, Bernice, daughter Mary and two grandchildren. Services were held Nov. 9.
"He was the kindest, most compassionate man you would ever want to meet. There is no one who did not like Vern," said daughter-in-law Barb Bartholomew. He ran Meals on Wheels and church rummage sales to help the poor, said daughter Sue Northenscold. He and his wife took in friends who had fallen into poverty so they could eat.
Bartholomew knew about hard times, "so he would bend over backward to help anyone. He insisted we all did," son Charly said. His son also told of a Golden Gloves boxer who could grew up fighting and turned hard when needed.
To help his parents during the Depression, Bartholomew dropped out of West High School in Minneapolis to work, eventually joining his brother Carl on the assembly line at Ford Motor Co. During the time he was working there, he asked Bernice (Bernie), whom he had met at the roller skating rink, to marry. She said no because he wasn't Catholic.