One of Mary Heinen's nieces said her aunt "was kind of like the third parent, the fun parent."
It's a family perspective on a woman who also was a nun and a health care educator and executive who led her religious order, the Sisters of St. Joseph Carondelet, St. Paul Province. Sister Mary Heinen died on Jan. 1 at age 81.
"She took me to my first couple of rock concerts back in the day," said Jane Velde, one of Heinen's 13 nieces and nephews. She also recalled many sleepovers and pool parties with her aunt, who helped raise her and her two brothers in the 1960s and '70s.
Mary Heinen was born on May 14, 1933, in New Ulm. She was the fourth of five children of Arthur and Clara Heinen. She graduated from Holy Trinity High School in New Ulm in 1950 and joined the St. Paul Province of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet in 1951. At that time there were about 1,100 sisters in the St. Paul Province; by 1990 the number had shrunk to 557, and currently there are 228.
In Heinen's early days, young nuns were assigned to professions by their superiors and Heinen was assigned to nursing, where she went on to have a long career as an educator and administrator.
In 1958 Heinen earned a bachelor's degree in nursing from the College of St. Catherine, St. Paul; a master's in nursing and nursing education from the Catholic University in Washington, D.C. in 1963; and a Ph.D. in higher education and administration from the University of Minnesota in 1975.
Early in her career she worked as a nurse's aide or nurse in a number of hospitals including St. Michael's Hospital in Grand Forks, N.D.; St. John's Hospital in Fargo, N.D., and St. Joseph's Hospital in St. Paul.
The Sisters of St. Joseph's owned and operated St. John's Hospital in Fargo and an affiliated nursing education program. From 1968 to 1971, Heinen established a nursing program at North Dakota State University by incorporating the CSJ School of Nursing in Fargo into associate and baccalaureate degree programs.