Obituary: Phyllis Jordan was teacher and community builder

February 24, 2016 at 2:56AM
Phyllis Jordan
Even in her later years, Phyllis Jordan was bold and outrageous, embracing each moment in a rollicking life. (The Minnesota Star Tribune)

Phyllis Jordan and her husband, Ross, rented out the third floor of their Minneapolis home to college students in the '60s, regardless of the students' race. Some of the students were from Africa, raising eyebrows in the completely white Kenwood neighborhood. But the Jordans, strong believers in the civil rights movement, weren't concerned what others thought.

"Integration was very important to them," said son Chris Jordan.

Phyllis Jordan, who died at 92 of congestive heart failure on Feb. 8, was a mother, teacher, artist and expert party planner who had strong political beliefs — and lived by them, friends and family say.

Jordan grew up in Minneapolis, attending West High and the University of Minnesota, where she majored in home economics. After college, she toured Minnesota with a radio personality Cedric Adams, giving cooking lessons on newly popular gas stoves.

She liked to say she met future husband Ross Jordan in the alley behind their families' homes. She took out the garbage at strategic times in hopes of chatting him up, said daughter Melanie Jordan.

Jordan married Ross, an engineer and amateur inventor, in 1947, and they had four children. She was bold, outgoing and playful while her husband was quiet and intellectual — a combination that worked for 67 years.

When Ross ran unsuccessfully for the state Senate, she managed the campaign.

"She was a great match to my father," daughter Catherine V. Jordan said. "Sometimes the women don't get the credit, but without my mother, my father couldn't have operated."

Phyllis Jordan was a mother to many in her south Minneapolis neighborhood, planning creative events like sledding outings and dress-up parties with costumes from Goodwill. A warm, imaginative mom, she could "make magic out of the flotsam and jetsam of life," Catherine Jordan said.

She went back to work in the '60s, teaching students with special needs at a time when few women had careers.

She and her husband retired in their mid-50s, buying and refurbishing an old farmhouse in Cloquet, Minn. It wasn't long before the house, powered by solar energy, became a mecca for friends, many from the First Unitarian Society of Minneapolis. Every weekend, "Camp Jordan," which slept 30 people, was full of visitors playing croquet, skiing and gathering for happy hour each night, at Phyllis Jordan's insistence. Her favorite drink was a sidecar.

"She built community — that's what she did," said Bernadine Joselyn, a family friend. "She created the space and conditions for a multigenerational, openhearted community to thrive."

Among the biggest annual fetes was New Year's Eve. Guests made masks and decorations and had a grand dinner, with Phyllis Jordan cooking for everyone. Then, a 4-foot-tall puppet named Mr. Wizard handed out predictions for the next year.

She began her second act in life after moving to Cloquet. She took up acrylic, watercolor and oil painting and traveling with her sister, Dodo.

Even as an older woman, she was bold and outrageous. She loved to swear, Melanie Jordan said.

She had Alzheimer's disease in her last years, but never stopped asking how others were doing or living in the moment.

"Five days before she died, I was making a Mardi Gras hat with her," Catherine Jordan said.

Jordan is survived by her three children and two grandchildren. She was preceded in death by a son, her husband and her sister. Services will be held April 2 at the First Unitarian Society of Minneapolis.

Erin Adler • 612-673-3283

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Erin Adler is a suburban reporter covering Dakota and Scott counties for the Minnesota Star Tribune, working breaking news shifts on Sundays. She previously spent three years covering K-12 education in the south metro and five months covering Carver County.

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