Nancy Longley grew up talking politics and health care at the dinner table with her parents, a nurse and doctor, in a small Minnesota town.
After earning a law degree years later, Longley worked on the campaigns for former U.S. senators Rudy Boschwitz and David Durenberger and others. Then she launched a public relations career with a focus on health care issues, such as developing and overseeing an anti-smoking campaign aimed at youth for the Minnesota Department of Health in 1990s.
Longley, a nonsmoker from St. Paul, died from lung cancer at age 52 last week, four months after being diagnosed with the disease, said her husband, Chris Longley. He said she said ran almost daily for fitness, ate well and had never smoked.
He said his wife cared most about her family, her work and helping others through their Catholic church and groups such as Midwest Special Services, which helps disabled seniors find housing.
"She was very charismatic. Her personality filled up a room," Longley said. "She was selfless, always caring about others." Even when she was suffering from cancer last fall, she helped another woman patient while both were waiting to get into the emergency room one night at United Hospital in St. Paul.
"She saw a patient in a lot of pain waiting. She took off her coat and made a pillow for the person," Longley recalled.
Longley said his wife was brilliant and could simplify complex subjects. He said her weakness was always being on her Blackberry responding to their three kids or her clients, even late at night. He said she wasn't very technical, so she didn't notice when he turned off her Blackberry while they were in Colorado skiing on vacation.
"We always had so many things to talk about," said her husband, a corporate law attorney. "She was my best friend. She laughed at all my jokes."