He understands how the misperception was born, and why it became conventional wisdom. He's seen all the photos and videos, the ones that reveal the veins popping out on his neck and the eyes wide with rage. Heck, he even likes telling some of the best, wildest stories himself.
But Ron Gardenhire wants to correct the impression most baseball fans have of him.
"The thought process is always [that] I don't get along with umpires," the Twins manager said. "That's blatantly wrong. I get along with them all the time." Now more than ever.
Gardenhire's 67 regular-season ejections (plus one in the playoffs) are more than any active manager and place him in the top 10 in baseball history. Those fiery nose-to-noses have become part of Twins lore, so much so that when the team celebrated the manager's 1,000th career victory last month, Twins players even wore T-shirts printed with photos of Gardenhire arguing with umpires and reading "1,000 wins, 67 ejections … and still counting."
That count has stalled this season, however. Gardenhire has yet to be tossed from a game in 2014, and if he remains in the dugout throughout Friday's game in Detroit, he will have survived 36 games so far — the deepest into a season he's gone without an ejection.
The reason, he figures, isn't a calmer temperament, or conflict avoidance. At 56, Gardenhire insists he's just as competitive as ever.
The thing is, there just isn't much to argue over anymore. "With the replay system, 'I challenge the call' is about as mean as you get," Gardenhire said. "You walk out slowly, and I say, 'This is what we see [in the replay],' and they go, 'Let's take a look.' … And there you have it. No yelling."
Around the game, disputes have been replaced by detente, hostility by cooperation. Managers and umpires are colleagues; no longer does a manager have to live with a blown call, nor an umpire defend one. "It's been a lovefest with the umpires, a big, happy discussion," Rays manager Joe Maddon said via Twitter. "Almost no reason to get upset anymore except balls and strikes."