I half-expect fireworks to bloom over the Minneapolis City Hall at midnight Thursday, even if nobody lights a fuse. The joy inside that 125-year-old hall at the start of a marriage marathon might be enough to light up the sky. More than 40 pairs of "I do"s are planned there between midnight and dawn.
Where will you be that night, Richard Carlbom?
"Wilde Roast Cafe for a large celebration until 1 a.m.," replied the manager of the largest and arguably most successful grass-roots campaign in state history, Minnesotans United for All Families. "Then I will stop by City Hall."
When he does, I predict that he'll pick an unobtrusive spot, stand quietly and soak in a euphoria he did much to create. That would be typical of Carlbom — too humble to allow his presence to detract attention from the first same-sex couples to legally marry in Minnesota, yet too devoted to the cause of marriage equality to stay away.
But Carlbom might not be able to avoid a spotlight. The 31-year-old former mayor of St. Joseph has been a sought-out and sought-after political personality since November, when Minnesota became the first state in the nation to reject a constitutional same-sex marriage ban. The Legislature's move to legalize same-sex marriage six months later only added to his renown.
Carlbom is a hero to same-sex couples who have longed for legal marriage and to Minnesotans who believe justice requires that the law treat all committed couples equally. He's a goat to those who wanted state law to keep marriage exclusive to male-female couples.
And he's a voice of hands-on experience for making something old — grass-roots organizing — new again. It's that knowledge that landed him and his new consulting firm United Strategies a contract with Freedom to Marry, a national advocacy group, to lead its push to add to the current list of 13 states that allow same-sex marriage.
For anyone who favors people-powered democracy, Carlbom is a dispenser of hope — on matters that range far beyond marriage. (More about that in a moment.)