A high school coach with an open-door policy might sound good, but it doesn't resonate much with athletes these days.
Instead, coaches should spend time in their athletes' living rooms to find out who they are and what best motivates them, reflecting a new era of "transformational coaching,'' a national researcher told high school activities directors from across the state last week.
The message from Jeff Duke, who leads a postgraduate program in coaching at the University of Central Florida, was part of a one-day seminar at Minnetonka High School called "Athletic Administrators Leading in the 21st Century.''
Topics ranged from organizational and coaching leadership to law and liability. Presenters included Duke, who developed his "Three-Dimensional Pyramid of Coaching Success"; Mark Dienhart, former Gophers athletic director; Minnesota State High School League legal and legislative counsel and a roundtable of superintendents.
"This is about us getting better," Bob Madison, Mounds View activities director and seminar steering committee member, told his 86 fellow educators, many of whom scribbled with pens, typed on tablet computers or listened with thoughtful facial expressions.
Make goals realistic
The first speaker, Dienhart, offered a sobering view of the changes within athletes and athletics. Athletics, he said, "is the primary source of status for high school students" but he wondered whether youngsters in the social media age are more concerned with celebrity than success.
He also talked about "goal-sickness," his term for coaches who "could be taken over by wins and losses." The job of a high school activities director, Dienhart said, is to "keep reminding folks that isn't what it's all about."
Duke furthered Dienhart's message and encouraged activities directors to remind coaches to win both on the scoreboard and in the hearts of their athletes.