A Kid Like Jake
⋆⋆½ out of four stars
Unrated: by the MPAA.
Theater: St. Anthony Main,
The crux of this family drama is an ethical quandary faced by two thoughtful people (played by Claire Danes and Jim Parsons) who want to acknowledge and support their 4-year-old son's emerging gender identity but not exploit it for gain or pin it down while it's still in formation.
That's an intriguing premise that takes this story out of conventional, daytime-special sentimentality and makes use of the distinctive gifts of Danes and Parsons — her sharp edges, his self-effacing, un-macho persona — in exploring questions about societal norms and the fluid spectrum we call selfhood.
The Wheelers are a Brooklyn couple embarking on the perilous, ruthless business of applying to schools. In New York, getting into kindergarten is tantamount to blood sport, and the Wheelers — who aren't poor, but aren't exactly rich, either — need every advantage they can get.
They seek advice from Jake's preschool principal (Octavia Spencer), who diplomatically suggests that they stress Jake's singular qualities on their applications, which in this case have to do with his preference of dresses to pants, Disney princesses to superheroes, pink to blue.
The film is directed with grace and humor by Silas Howard (who works primarily in TV) from a script that Daniel Pearle adapted from his play of the same name. It features a sensitive, even-tempered tone, as well as terrific supporting performances from Spencer, Ann Dowd and a scene-stealing Amy Landecker.