Hug your dog. Cook a beautiful meal. Talk about life with family and friends. Embrace what you love — that's what Michael Sween tried to do during the most fulfilling and meaningful moments of his tumultuous, 28-year life, family members say.
Life was not always easy for Sween, or for those close to him. But when the Minneapolis man died in a car crash this month, he was busy laying the groundwork for what he thought would be a much longer life in which he aimed to help people affected by mental illness like he was.
A world traveler and outdoors enthusiast, Sween died Nov. 8 in his beloved Toyota Land Cruiser. Headed south on Hwy. 169 just south of Princeton, his vehicle left the road and flipped several times after Sween swerved right to avoid hitting a vehicle that had just struck a deer. Seat belt fastened, no alcohol involved. His new hunting dog, a pudelpointer puppy named Murray that Sween was picking up that day from a trainer in northern Minnesota, also died in the crash.
Sween's death stunned family members who'd been encouraged by recent signs of progress. Sween was doing well at his job, and was forming relationships with co-workers at affordable-housing developer Dominium.
"Michael suffered a psychiatric crisis about a year and a half ago. And that is something no one should ever have to go through," said his father, Dominium managing partner Paul Sween of Wayzata. In recent months, "he was doing everything he needed to do to be successful, and he was successful. What I would hope people can remember about Michael was that he was on the ascendancy."
Born in 1991, Michael Sween entered the world with great advantages and great challenges.
His family had material comforts not afforded to many families. His privilege allowed him to graduate from college at his own pace, and he came to appreciate how his familial and financial safety nets spared him much.
He was born with a bright mind but significant dyslexia and attention-deficit disorder — "like a Ferrari engine in a Chevy," said his mother, Margaret Simmons of Minneapolis.