Marriage debate: Many traditions needed redefining

There are a number of rules regarding human relationships that at one time were supported by the Bible that society no longer supports.

October 4, 2012 at 2:19PM
In this photo taken on April 22, 2009, Seminarian Joseph Toledo holds his bible during the morning mass at the Redemptoris Mater Archdiocesan Missionary Seminary in Denver.
In this photo taken on April 22, 2009, Seminarian Joseph Toledo holds his bible during the morning mass at the Redemptoris Mater Archdiocesan Missionary Seminary in Denver. (Associated Press/The Minnesota Star Tribune)

From what I read in letters to the editor and newspaper articles, there appears to be a misunderstanding that according to the Bible, marriage between a man and a woman is tradition, has always been that way and therefore should stay that way.

In fact, there are a number of rules regarding human relationships that at one time were supported by the Bible that society no longer supports:

1. We no longer stone a woman to death if she is not a virgin at marriage (Deut. 22: 13-21).

2. We no longer practice polygamy (Gen. 4: 19, 16:3, 21: 1-13, 25: 1).

3. Men no longer have concubines and slaves in marriage (Gen. 25:6, 30: 4, 30: 9). It is interesting to note that Solomon had more than 1,000 wives and concubines (Kings 11:3).

4. We accept interfaith marriages (Num. 25:6-11, Deut. 7:3, Ezra. 9:2-12, 10: 2-3 and Gen. 24:3-4).

5. We accept interracial marriages (Num. 12:1, Exodus 34: 12-16, Deut. 7:1-4).

6. We now have divorce and annulments as common practice (Matthew 5:32, 19:8).

7. We no longer allow incest in marriage (Gen. 11-14, 19).

8. Marriage was not always a Christian sacrament. Prior to the Council of Trent, it was a civil ceremony and in 1562 was established as a Catholic sacrament.

Those are just a few of the changes over the years. Societies continue to redefine the concept of marriage and recognize equality and civil rights for all.

Let's continue to move forward. Vote no on the marriage amendment.

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Donald R. Sonsalla is a retired educator in White Bear Lake. To read more marriage amendment commentaries, go here.

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