Here are 10 foolproof conversation starters to ease school-event jitters and navigate neighborhood potlucks.
Mind your manners. Always make proper introductions by landing a firm handshake, and offering your first and last names. No exceptions.
Gimmicks are good. Once you've swapped civilities, anchor yourself to an anecdote. For example, do you have a tricky name to pronounce? Acknowledge it upfront. This takes pressure off getting the name straight and usually leads to questions about its origin.
It takes two. Refrain from claiming sole ownership of whether a conversation sizzles or fizzles. If you're listening, asking thoughtful questions, and the interaction still sinks, don't assume you're the dud.
Channel Bridget Jones. Disarming honesty is winning. Confide social anxiety or how you've grown rusty in the chitchat department. Your authenticity will put others at ease.
Make a compliment sandwich. Brandish visuals when delivering a compliment. Your praise will feel unique, rather than perfunctory: "The detailing on your belt is so ornate."
Settle a bet. Suck people in with a cause. "I wonder if you could settle a bet for me? Are Mumbai and Bombay the same city?"
Go for a hot trend. Survey what's currently hip, such as gluten-free diets or "The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo."
