Letter of the Day (May 11): Mom

May 12, 2012 at 4:16AM
Mother Vinita, 23, carries her symbolic 7 billionth girl child, Nargis, at the Community Health Center in Mall, about 45 kilometers (28 miles) from Lucknow, India's most populous state of Uttar Pradesh, India, Monday, Oct. 31, 2011. According to the U.N. Population Fund, there will be symbolic "seven billionth" baby Earth's land and resources on Oct. 31. Already the second most populous country with 1.2 billion people, India is expected to overtake China around 2030 when its population soars to
Mother Vinita, 23, carries her symbolic 7 billionth girl child, Nargis, at the Community Health Center in Mall, about 45 kilometers (28 miles) from Lucknow, India's most populous state of Uttar Pradesh, India, Monday, Oct. 31, 2011. According to the U.N. Population Fund, there will be symbolic "seven billionth" baby Earth's land and resources on Oct. 31. Already the second most populous country with 1.2 billion people, India is expected to overtake China around 2030 when its population soars to an estimated 1.6 billion. (Associated Press/The Minnesota Star Tribune)

The economy is still struggling; people are still losing their jobs; college graduates and people over 50 can't get jobs; the cost of filling up your tank and buying food still hurts, and now you are worried that you won't have any money left over for retirement.

The list of worries is endless. But take a deep breath now -- give yourself a time-out and focus on what really is important: your mother.

On Sunday, you have a great chance to really brighten your mother's day. But to make her truly happy, put down your smart phone (which is currently glued to your hand) or other gadget, and head over to her place for an in-person visit.

A telephone call or an impersonal e-mail or text will never replace your presence. Your mother has done a lot for you, and she deserves a face-to-face visit.

Just remember this (you already know it): One day, your mother won't be with us anymore. And you will always regret it.


NEIL F. ANDERSON, RICHFIELD

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