Lydia Gnos met Leland Krebs Jr. when she was waiting tables and he was tending bar in 1987 at the Harbor View Cafe in Pepin, Wis.
"I asked him for a quartet of glasses," she recalled, "and he said, 'Here are two violins, one viola and one cello.' "
Right away, Gnos realized Krebs was a charmer. She was even more impressed when she found out he owned and operated the Great River Bed and Breakfast in nearby Stockholm.
The two were married in 1988, and, with the help of Gnos, Krebs kept the B&B humming along until about a year before he died on Jan. 2 in Twentynine Palms, Calif. He was 88.
"Leland said, 'No wheel turned without me turning it,' " said Gnos, recalling his jack-of-all-trade talents.
Krebs was born in Duluth in 1930 and his family moved to Quincy, Ill., where he spent his childhood. There, he explored the banks of the Mississippi River with his sister Carolyn Dukes, sparking a lifelong love for the outdoors.
Following high school, Krebs served in the Air Force during the Korean War in the Marshall Islands. After graduating from the University of Minnesota, he worked for Archer Daniels Midland, a Minneapolis commodities trading company.
Krebs and his first wife Joyce started a family and had three children in the St. Anthony Park neighborhood of St. Paul. But in 1969, his risk-taking spirit kicked in and he quit his job, moving his family to the Caribbean island of Grenada.