Fred Rogers, when trying to make sense of 9/11, not only for kids but also for their parents, reverted to something his mother used to say.
Mr. Rogers' mother taught him to "look for the helpers."
Those seem like grounding words as we all wrestle with COVID-19 days.
How to live, and live well, in a slow-churning pandemic and a politically divided nation?
Look for the helpers — the first responders, and teachers, and sisters and brothers of mercy — and help them.
And maybe there is a corollary for dealing with the political divisions: Look for the mavericks. As you try to determine what to believe, look for the leaders, the journalists, the academics who seem not to have a permanent side or tribe, or at least can break away from that tribe when something bigger is at stake.
By something bigger I have in mind ideas like decency, due process and fair play, respect for evidence, love of country.
This is the advice I gave a bright bunch of high school students a few weeks back when one asked: Who can we trust to inform us?