To many, Karan Day-Banker was simply known as "Mom" or "Mama Calhoun."
Whether she was baking goodies for neighborhood kids or offering friendly smiles as she chatted with the regular members she helped at the Calhoun Beach Club, Day-Banker was always a constant source of support and strength.
She died Sept. 14 at age 76 due to complications from cancer.
Day-Banker was born July 27, 1944, in Minneapolis, one of 13 children. She suffered from rheumatic fever and polio as a child. Because of financial difficulties, she and her siblings were sent to live with family members, with Day-Banker spending time off and on at a family farm where she developed a love of animals. She later graduated from Central High School in Minneapolis.
Day-Banker was known as a pragmatic, hard worker who did what she needed to do to make ends meet. After graduation, Day-Banker worked a variety of jobs, including as a waitress in Wayzata. She was a single mother, raising her two children in south Minneapolis holding down waitressing and child-care jobs during the day and cleaning at night.
Day-Banker also served as the caretaker of the fourplex where she lived. "It was the typical house where everyone was welcome," said Day-Banker's son, Dan Day. "It was always a safe haven."
His mother would make homemade cinnamon rolls and other baked goods for neighborhood kids and offer them hand-me-down clothes or a place to crash if needed.
"A lot of people, they really didn't know my mom's name," said Susan Schanke, her daughter. "They just called her mom."