Just dance!

January 2, 2013 at 12:36AM
Maitland Kelley on his 80th birthday, February 20, 1994.
Maitland Kelley on his 80th birthday, February 20, 1994. (The Minnesota Star Tribune)

Maitland M. Kelley, my 98 year old father, passed away on June 12, 2012, after suffering a stroke 12 days earlier.

In his time, he was a railroad conductor, a skilled woodworker, a hunter, a gardener and a chef. He was a ballroom dancer and fancied himself a gentleman. The man from Caribou, MN, loved hiking through the deep woods with nothing but a bandana to swat away the mosquitoes.

But most of all, he was a family man. A screaming infant would fall asleep in his arms and every non-working moment was devoted to loving and entertaining his wife and 6 children.

His death was a deeply spiritual and inspirational time. I was awed by the strength he showed in his final 12 days. He was a brave man whose last act was to comfort his children by moving on to eternal life with grace.

I was trying to think about how he would want to be remembered. The family danced while we washed dishes and we danced while we swept floors. So I hope you will all be inspired to dance! Waltz with your loved one or do the hokey-pokey with a friend. But please, just dance!

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