Joe Rossi took a moment to feel sorry for himself, alone in the locker room while the rest of the Gophers coaching staff met elsewhere in the football facility.
It was 34 degrees and raining, and his task that day was to drive around campus on a golf cart with no windshield to make sure players were attending class. Basically, grunt work assigned to young coaches just breaking into the business.
Except Rossi wasn't a newbie. He already had been a defensive coordinator at three different schools, including in the Big Ten at Rutgers. His coaching career had been on a steady trajectory upward.
He came to Minnesota in 2017 with the understanding that he would become a full-time assistant, but first he spent a year on the bottom rung as a quality control coach, doing class checks in miserable weather among other tasks.
He went to the locker room to pout that day. He gave himself a scolding instead.
Stop complaining, he told himself. Get your butt upstairs and go do your job.
That's how Rossi solves problems — he goes to work.
"You have to work to get what you want," he said.